IELTS Speaking

37

Friends

1. Why do some people lose contact with their childhood friends?

People lose contact with their childhood friends for a variety of reasons. Life often takes unexpected turns, and people move away for jobs, school, or other opportunities. People may also drift apart if their interests and values no longer align. Additionally, people who were close in childhood may experience a disconnect as they grow up and enter different stages of life. 

2. How do people in your country make friends these days?

In my country, people make friends in a variety of ways. Many people use social media platforms to connect with others and form friendships. Additionally, people meet friends through school, work, clubs, sports teams, and other activities. People also make friends through mutual acquaintances or by engaging in their local community. Lastly, some people make friends by randomly striking up conversations with strangers in public places. 

3. Why is it hard to maintain friendships?

Maintaining friendships can be difficult for a variety of reasons. People often have busy lives and conflicting schedules that make it hard to find time to spend together. Additionally, life events such as moving away or starting a new job can make it difficult to stay in contact. It can also be challenging to maintain a friendship if personal interests or values begin to diverge. Lastly, many people simply don't make the effort to stay in touch, leading to a gradual drift apart. 

4. Why is it easier to make friends on the internet than in reality?

Making friends on the internet can be easier than making them in real life for a few reasons. Online, it is easier to find people who share the same interests or values, since it is easy to search for people with similar backgrounds or beliefs. Additionally, it can be less intimidating to start a conversation online since there is less of a fear of rejection. Finally, it is easier to stay in touch online than in real life, since people can easily communicate over long distances.  

5. What qualities do you think are important in a friend?

I think the most important qualities in a friend are trustworthiness, loyalty, and respect. It is important to be able to trust and count on your friend when you need them. Loyalty is also important, as it means that your friend will always be there for you in good times and bad. Lastly, respect is essential in any friendship, as it allows for open and honest communication. 

6.  Do you think it is a good idea to borrow money from a friend? Why or why not?

I do not think it is a good idea to borrow money from a friend. Money can be a contentious issue, and it can put a strain on the friendship if it is not repaid in a timely manner. Additionally, it can create an imbalance in the friendship if one person is always the one lending money. If you need to borrow money, it is better to do so from a bank or other financial institution. 

7. What factors may result in the breakdown of a good friendship?

A number of factors may result in the breakdown of a good friendship. If personal values or beliefs start to diverge, it can cause tension and strain in the friendship. Additionally, a lack of communication or an unwillingness to compromise can lead to a breakdown in the friendship. Lastly, life events such as moving away or having a disagreement can cause a rift between two friends. 

8. Friendship is the most important relationship. Do you agree? Why? Why not?

I agree that friendship is an important relationship, but I do not think it is the most important relationship. While friendships can be incredibly meaningful and supportive, other relationships such as family or romantic relationships are often just as important, if not more so. Each person has different needs and values, so what is most important to one person may not be the same for another.